Part I: Where Is A Man's Confidence Rooted?

I have heard stories about where a man's confidence comes from but funny enough its the ladies who make some of the wildest guesses.

1) The Shoes

Ever realised how confident a man is when there are wearing expensive, quality or high class shoes. It feels like the ground is just too hard for your soft steps and you can feel the eyes of the people looking in admiration as if they will uproot you. Imagine when a woman is driving a fancy car and you are on your two series, then atleast you gotta have nice shoes to feel much more like a real man not her tour guide.

2) New Boxer

Sounds ridiculous especially considering that a boxer is a concealed underneath garment. Well tell you what most guys would agree that when you wearing brand new designer or rather expensive stylish boxers you feel like you ontop of the world. Besides in case of some unexpected crashes when you have to be undressed then you don't have to worry about those loud mouths who always look for that negative thing to spite you. A new boxer even gives you the confidence to try new things even wierdos. You do not even hesitate to go for a one night stand , you just become an extroveted somebody that the world has never seen

3) His Woman

Beauty only is just not enough, well that depends on who that man hangs out with. Who would want to have his woman around when all she knows better is makeup and the latest flavor of Cardibury chocolates. I mean a man's confidence will get props if his woman is  smart on the outside and above all upstairs, in the brains. There are times a man goes out with their woman and wish they could tell their friends or collegues that she is deaf and dumb, use sign language. Very few people do understand sign language and the moment they hear that they feel out of it.

4) Fat Wallet

It is one of the 17 unwritten Laws of Guyship that a man must be the provider. Take time to watch the movie "Why Did I Get Married Too", Troy just did enjoy life knowing that its his woman who provided everything since he had just became jobless. How many times has your mother told you what she bought with her own money without the help of you dad? You will never see a man calling his kids aside to show them or even point out what he bought from his pockets, its because a man feels man enough when he provides.